Thanksgiving and I am continuously aware of all the golden airy blessings around me.
A quiet holiday at home and still it was pure bliss. I had forgotten the many nuances of relaxation and self-care. So happy to have reclaimed them. There is so much breathing room available when there is not a looming to-do list. Because I am still me, I still made a to-do list, but it looked quite different this time: bake muffins, go for walk, watch football, etc.
Fall is also a good time for introspection. My thirties have sometimes offered a “thousand foot view” that was not there in earlier years. When I think about the big things that have defined my life, I think about my mom’s passing and my practice. And I sometimes am struck by how some of the biggest things in this life are experienced in solitude, in the meek, quiet hours of late nights and early mornings. Hard to reconcile that so many intensely personal (and lonely) experiences exist in the context of so much love… And there IS so much love. Such is the nature of life.
It is colder. I am older. Taylor’s 10-minute version of “All Too Well” has been released. Such is the nature of fall.
Not too long ago, I read something by Mari Andrew. She indicated that instead of a traditional gratitude list, she started making a list of everything she observed. It helped her feel mindful and present. I really liked that idea. I sometimes think of my Instagram or this blog as a collection of my favorite things, but it is also nice to observe and document all the things. At the same time, I am not sure I need further awareness of the things that keep me up at night.
And there are things. Much like Taylor, I’d like to be remembered for the things I love. Not the things that scare me or frustrate me.
That’s all for now. Walking through Breakheart Reservation and then making a pot roast. Tomorrow – the day of writing a million reports!